The way we get by

The way we get through life is by telling ourselves a bunch of things to make us feel better. You need to find the balance between convincing yourself life is one way and letting yourself be surprised by people. No one’s ever right, not you, not anyone else. So keep that in mind. It’s easy to think that everyone else has got their head on straight and yours is lopsided, but everyone’s just as mixed up as you, trying to make it in their own way. So calm down. Take a deep breath. And enjoy the world you fit into now, but don’t ever stop trying to burrow outwards more, expand your view, like a little mole.